Hi, I am Edwin. NoktahHitam is my alter ego. I am a business owner at Laman7, serial entrepreneur, a husband and a father.

We all have something to say, but to whom that matters? For me, the best audience is theย next generation and our future self. So I write to remind myself, how I was like, the experience I went through, the failures that I faced, the little things that I tried, likes or dislikes. I hope this blog lives long enough for my future generation. InsyaAllah.

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  1. Err.?? If I write about my life and how I feel, why should anyone correct me? Do people feel the way I feel? Does it involve ilmu? No! An honest opinion is an honest opinion, no righteous person should correct that.

    And I am not being so bloody ignorant nor arrogant.

  2. Bila kita encounter a situation or life, secara logik ada sebab dan musabbabnya. Cause and Effect. Tindakan perlukan ilmu/knowledge. Kalau tidak, kita seperti anak2 kecil yg tindakannya tidak berasaskan ilmu dan pengetahuan. To separate yourself from ilmu at any one time, that’s bloody ignorant and arrogant.

    Nabi Musa pernah encounter Nabi Khidir. He made mistakes and later admit it.

    Maha Kaya Allah, when you wrote that statement, you made grammatical errors and your statement has been dashed out when you corrected it. HE wanted, wants and wanting to tell you something. Why you made the correction since you “refrain from being corrected, no matter what the circumstances are’?

    At the first place, it did not bother me to comment. Yet, due to the fact that I pity someone yg tersalah jalan, it is my duty to correct your stand.

  3. Lain orang cakap, lain pulak yang dibahaskan. I was referring to feelings and the past. Kalau dah marah, marah lah, mane ade marah suam-suam kuku? Kalau sedih, sedih la, mane ade sedih main-main. That is what I meant by โ€œrefrain from being corrected, no matter what the circumstances are”.

    Most of the time, I whine. I’m not trying to find a solution to a problem. In other ways, I am telling a story of something that already happened.

    Thanks for the brotherly advise. I am not trying to be hard headed here. Perhaps you haven’t been following me and I personally think you got me all wrong. Nontheless, thanks!

  4. yeah agree on that. better than muka macam mawi. obviously not his fan. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

  5. ah, love the logo and pics. uve outdid urself as usual. about abang ustaz atas tu, i think u should understand the context of NH’s statement before shooting blindly.

    bak kata orang, tanye dulu kan? personally, I know NH the writer, he is not THAT headstrong if the flow of argument makes sense to this fella.

    Then again, sometimes, it’s a matter how u argue your points anyway. ๐Ÿ™‚

  6. short and sweet…..nicely done bro

  7. Pot calling the kettle black. Dia sendiri grammar bersepah, nak kata orang.

    Your holier than thou act is absofuckinglutely annoying.

  8. Salam Kenal… ๐Ÿ™‚

  9. good layout+color combination…
    nice blog anyway~

  10. smart gmbr-aku suka :up:

  11. Bila la aku akan sampai kesana? Gambar tu cun cuma..

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  13. hye.. i`m currently studying medicine.. got plenty young doctor (insyaAllah, soon-will-be)
    over here.. kikii.. neway, nice bLog~!

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  15. i hope you will not marry a doctor.. haha
    nice blog anyway

  16. At least I have an objective, do you?

  17. ๐Ÿ™‚ respect & nice blog

  18. hi there, i’m a doctor (but not single lah) and it is interesting that u actually want to marry a doctor given how intimidated some men can be when hearing that word.. u can be rest assured there are loads of single beautiful doctors lingering in hospitals even when they become specialists. u’r 25.. u’r still young. maybe u can target medical students too ๐Ÿ™‚

  19. I’m actually 26 (recently).

    Intimidated? That has lots to do with their ego. I have plenty of female doc friends (most are married), they are gentle and intelligent. If there’s any household decision, I believe I have the upper hand knowing my better half is bright.

    Why don’t you do me a favor then, refer them to me. I’ll buy you sushi~ ๐Ÿ˜€

  20. How shallow. Female doctors are the only smart females around? (I have met some seriously dumb female doctors by the way).

    As far as I am concerned, any job can be an act of ‘humanitarian’ as long as the duty is to serve the people (and orang itu ikhlas melakukannya). Being a doctor is NOT the only way of being a humanitarian. This is the problem with Malaysians, putting doctors so up the pedestal and ignoring other professions which in essence, are equally or more noble.

    No offense to you tuan rumah. Good luck in finding your dream wife.

  21. blog walking….
    just wanna say hi while im drop by…
    nice blog…

  22. Salam.
    saya jumpa blog ini sewaktu mengoogle sesuatu.
    kemudian lama pula lekat..membaca entri2 saudara..seronok. selepas itu, barulah saya ke page about ini. agak terkejut dan kagum dengan statement ‘i want to marry a doctor’ itu..jarang dengar orang lelaki mahu beristerikan doktor. disebabkan itu saya rasa ingin menurunkan komen di sini.

    saya seorang bakal doktor insya-Allah. tapi saya boleh dikatakan student medic yg agak bermasalah dlm study. sudah 2 kali saya mengulang tahun hingga dah ditarik scholarship baru2 ni dan perlu bayar semula kesemuanya kpd penaja. sebuah tamparan yg hebat, tp saya tetap tekad dan bersungguh utk terus belajar. sekarang ni lagi 5 tahun utk saya tamatkan pengajian. agak mencabar jiwa sayalah sebenarnya utk terus berjuang menjadi doktor ni. dan bergelar doktor pula nanti, bukanlah sesuatu yg mudah..

    maaf saya bercerita panjang.

    apapun, mulai tulisan saudara saya lihat saudara seorang ada berpendirian dan sukakan cabaran. alhamdulillah, sedikit sebanyak saya dapat sesuatu yg menyumbang kpd kehidupan sy..as medical student especially.

    semoga urusan hidup saudara dipermudahkan Allah dunia akhirat ๐Ÿ™‚

  23. It’s ok! Usahe itu tangga kejayaan! Yg penting jangan malu berdepan dengan ilmu, nanti ilmu yg malu nak dekat dgn kite. All the best to you!

  24. oh, ada jugak orang yang lebih teruk dr my condition.. saye sgt down sbb terpaksa mengulang satu paper di saat teman-teman dah mendaki tangga dewan konvokesyen tu. dan i was thinking to cut myself once.., alhamdulillah iman masih kuat walau tinggal senipis habuk.

    btw, salaam aleykum kpd NH.

    terribly nice blog. entah mcm mana terjumpa bila tengah sibuk nak check out borang upu intake. google really drives me gila sometimes (or i was the one salah taip?) pfft!

    so NH, i bet you are financially stable in that age, i bet? semoga berjodoh dgn Cik D.R someday, insya-Allah.

  25. Bro, Salams. didnt mean to intrude nor trying to but I’m a bit concern regarding your choice of themes and a mascot for your blog. I’m sure it was unintentional and might be cool from a designer’s perspectives, but I couldnt help but to feel that, the moves to employs satanic figures as your mascot is contradicting with Islamic’s teaching and would be seen as an “worshiping” act.

    Please don’t get mad at me . I did this because it is our obligation to advice and be adviced (nasihat dan menasihati) ๐Ÿ™‚

    jazakallah bikhair

  26. baru 26 tahun..akal lum sempurna lagi rupanya…

  27. mane la ade orang yg sempurna akalnya

  28. salam saudara…sauamir dari KB…tak salah kan kita berkenalan…tolong balas e mail saya

  29. blogwalking happily~
    hello! (:

  30. Salam, I like your tagline ‘words unsaid & deeds undone’, may I know what does it really mean? your alter ego has ‘great persona’, interesting! =)

  31. Napelah semua org suka sgt nak kawin doktor? Awat takde yg nak kawin graphic designer ker, visual merchandiser ke, tukang salin minit miting ke.. haha..

    Anyway, nice page bro.. cantek susun aturnya dan lenggok bahasanya.. Bravo!! *clap!*clap!*clap!*

  32. are u stupid, these are the thing that u must keep in heart(even if it is true). u can get lots of trouble if u write somethg like this. Even if u want to write, hide ur ip and id la. idiot

  33. how to update the singapore and malaysia map if uses your setting and files?

  34. nice blog..n i have just one simple question to ask,are you independent??

  35. nice blog. influencing others mind.great job.

  36. Yo..! sedap jer kata org akal belum sempurna. Cuba bagitahu kami semua ni bila lak akal you tu disempurnakan? dan bila pula detik pertama kamu mulai berakal?

  37. Keep up this good blog; you’re indeed making a difference. I rarely come across a person who can capture my attention with his/her ramblings ;-). And at just 28 (discount the bad decision on car make) I’m doubly impressed. I hope you’d have found your doctor by now. Cheers!

  38. Nope I didnt find my doc, I have someone better ๐Ÿ™‚

    Thanks for your kind words.

  39. LoL!!!! Glad to know that you’ve moved on from the doc to expand your horizon to other professions. Best of luck to you & your better half.

  40. hye2.. ed kan? td ad join blogger sports community rite? ad perasan, tp segan nk tegur sbb xkenal…

  41. Ade! Tapi tak tego, mane laa nak tau. Ramai jugak orang tadi.

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  43. my first time visit here. niche ‘noktahhitam’ as black as blog black :p

    are there any hidden things secrets…?

  44. lama tak visit this blog. like 3 years already i think? scroll and scroll saw pics of u and aisyah. sweet pulak. cos few years back korang mcm friends over the internet or something kan. haha. ๐Ÿ™‚

  45. I didnt expect to marry her either. It happened and I couldnt be happier ๐Ÿ˜‰

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