Will You Marry Me?

I am not exactly the type of guy who rides a white horse wearing a 75kg shining armor. Definitely not the type of guy girls drools over her keyboards, but I’ve been asked several times, will you marry me?

Minus off the playful proposals, there was a few that made me ponder. I know, I had to be fair. If I am willing to consider one, I have to consider all. But that would make me a shallow being, lining up everyone against the wall and sizing them up in all aspects. I hate being compared to, I’m sure they feel the same way too.

As of now, neither my mind nor heart tells me to proceed. Like a healthy person, I too have an excessive emotional baggage I have to carry. Until I sort them out, I don’t think I am fit to juggle life-death decisions.

In the most subtle and gentlest manner I declined their proposal. I hope it was nothing more than a pinch to them.

Whilst you may think they are being bold by asking me directly. I assure you, it’s nothing to be ashamed of. Afterall, it was Khadijah who proposed to Muhammad.

ps: Who in the hell used the house phone pushing it to RM340? Somebody is going to get a smack on the head.

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25 thoughts on “Will You Marry Me?”

  1. To be honest,

    Although you said its nothing to be ashamed of, t..still kagum dgn a girl who can walk up to a guy and ask for a hand in marriage.

    I personally dont think i’ll ever find the courage to do that. Seriously ;p

    Anyway. im glad. The way i see it, at least lelaki perempuan skrg da same taraf.

    ok i bebel too much. mcm pakar perunding perkahwinan plak bunyinye.

    p/s : lame betul tak jenguk blog ni.

  2. Oh? Someone proposed to you? Laku shiet! Hot property you are bro, although you may think otherwise of yourself. HAHA!

    ps: Just back from travelling. Reading blogs.. replying comments now. XD I love the new theme. But I think the red colour for the hyperlink not really visible.. because the font size too ‘thin’.

  3. eddie, wow!

    maybe it’s not the time yet. because i m sure if the time is right, it might be you who do the asking part.

    🙂

  4. hi.
    I’m your silent-but-sometimes-I-drop-comments reader.

    I know I am judgmental but I can’t help it to say this to you after reading this entry:

    that I always have this in mind that someone ought to be your wife is one hell of a lady.

    🙂 take this as a compliment, ok?

  5. Tu laa. Where have you been? You jarang2 update blog dah ni.

    I’m sure it took them a lot of courage to ask. And questions like that needs a good answer. I hope I replied in the most subtle manner.

    Taraf lelaki perempuan? I never had that in mind. I am ok if my wife is the bread winner. But you have to admit, woman do need men when it comes to power tools and stuff. Likewise for other gurly stuff.

  6. you got me all wrong, wahai encik eddie yang kacak bergaye ;p

    what i meant was, dulu only laki yg melutut and ask for marriage. kalau perempuan buat, mesti kene stigmatized kan?. tapi, skrg da takpe, since byk people open minded~

    anyway, you still remember our deal? kalau i still andartu by umur sekian-sekian, i dah cop you masuk minang kan? lol

  7. oh am i writing on a piece of black colored wood?hype!!

    err..mmg sangat laris lah bila a girl ajak kawin..i know the feeling..i still got that tho’ im married and they knew i am taken..how???

    p/s: my 2 cents..jangan sekali2 anggap proposal semacam itu main2 dan jangan sekali2 anggap proposal semacam itu terlalu serious..most importantly stay on your ground.i have a doc and pious sis..nak masuk minang?meh la hahahaha

  8. I am replying you via mobile :p black wood is my fave. I cant have it as furniture, it looks like it was burnt. About your sis, gimme her facebook. Let me stalk her. Hehehe

  9. I do not recall you saying that. If i had to abid to all the proposal girls have made, i would have 6 wives. 3 being docs. Hehehe. But i’ll keep you in the loop ;p

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