Comments on: What’s Bugging You?

By: Mcd&T

Mcd&T — Fri, 26 Dec 2008 14:30:21 +0000

i once read in a book that says, boys usually will cave-in whenever they hv problems, they dont share it with people dear to their hearts. It doesnt mean they didnt trust or love u, its just the hormones in them. Same goes to me tho i dont hv the Y-gene, maybe i hv some hormonal imbalance s’where kut .

But i guess, the ego in us force us to have some quiet time alone. Its not that we dont share, but certain things are too private to tell others even our bff.

Sila jgn fikir bahawa semua kaum Hawa ni share problems dgn shbt2 kwn2 rapat. There’s always an exception.

By: NoktahHitam

NoktahHitam — Mon, 08 Dec 2008 14:16:30 +0000

I does work for me. Rather than you going to MiRC, might as well just talk to me. The very least I could do, is listen.

By: ellyda zsazsa

ellyda zsazsa — Mon, 08 Dec 2008 10:21:25 +0000

does that works? i felt that i am falling apart nowadays.. nothing is what it seems anymore.. had try to push it under the carpet but it is still there.. too much into work until i’m so tired but still feeling sad…

By: pcuserz

pcuserz — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 03:15:47 +0000

sometimes you need a shoulder to cry.
a stranger? it might help.
(but not all the time)

By: sub

sub — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 02:52:20 +0000

We pray 5 times a day, so, berdoa lah…and you could tell evrything to Him.read hadis yg menceritakan bgaimana nabi berdoa….nabi cerita semua masalah…sort of therapy, orang yg beragama lg cepat tenang…beragama meaning believe in god.

By: NoktahHitam

NoktahHitam — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 21:50:21 +0000

Nice come back line

By: teddY

teddY — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 21:42:35 +0000

Ooof! Sounds pretty harsh on your health. Don’t be a workaholic okay be sure to know how to enjoy life, heh.

I don’t think so. I’m a lazy pig

By: NoktahHitam

NoktahHitam — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 19:53:26 +0000

It’s a 24 hour business

Play hard, Work harder, Pleasure later. Until pleasure comes, I will work my wits out.

ps: If your parents slaughter you, will it be halal? LoL

By: teddY

teddY — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 19:45:42 +0000

LOL! Speaking of making someone pregnant, if that really happened one day I wouldn’t even tell my closest friend. They’ll most probably inform my parents on the basis of ‘oh, it’s all for your own good’ and my mom will slaughter me and I’ll be her bacon for breakfast tomorrow

You reminded me of those anonymous chatrooms my friends used to go to. They just randomly speak to strangers… and can spend a whole night doing that. I didn’t understand why would they like to do that until your post came up and rang a bell in my head *ding dong!*

What is keeping you awake at 4am in the morning?

By: NoktahHitam

NoktahHitam — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 19:00:19 +0000

Sahabat? More like apostle. Thats a bit hard to find.

Ala syam, between you and me, we’re still stranger. I dont judge you, you dont judge me, we live happily.

Jap, we’re not strangers. HAHAHA. Acquaintance or friends maybe.

By: NoktahHitam

NoktahHitam — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 18:52:02 +0000

Ah, my favorite commentator.

Teddy, while I think it’s ok to sulk on emotions (alone), I do think it’s good if you could release some of that by telling others.

The thing about stranger is, they dont know you. So they can’t judge you. E.g. you made someone pregnant. would you tell your friends or stranger? If you tell your friends, it’ll be his/her trump card, you know in case you dont want to do their lab work. If you tell a stranger, chances are, they’ll forget or file this under temp memory.

*stranger in this context is like you and me. I don’t know your circle of friends or family, likewise.

By: NoktahHitam

NoktahHitam — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 17:53:08 +0000

Somehow master, my life principle is try to live on your own. There’s no “if I’ll fail”. I can do it. I know I can. Oh well, maybe I’m just that egoist.

By: teddY

teddY — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 17:32:07 +0000

Hey NH! First of all, nice song I like it when people plug songs occasionally in their entries because sometimes I’ll just go crazy over it and have it stuck in my head (yay, free cranial jukebox!)

I would go for a jog or a swim to vent off that extra anger but since I’m a rather introverted person, it scares me when I talk to strangers and I guess whining to a stranger will scare them away too… it depends on their personality as well.

I wouldn’t watch dramas for that long because my neck will hurt! I’ve got this lower back problem and I couldn’t sit for too long. Lying on the bed to watch makes things worse because I’ll wake up having a nasty neck ache

Usually when I’m sad I’ll prefer to be alone. I’ll refrain to talk to my close friends because I don’t think I deserve their attention and I don’t want to let them feel my inner pain. I understand because even as a close friend, some people find whining untolerable

I’m sure I’m not optimistic enough to laugh it off! Haha! I’ll probably mull over it for a few days or so and I’ll get better after a while.

By: Syam

Syam — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 14:24:12 +0000

i do agree. talking to stranger might enough to ease your pain.

but there is other alternatif. find ‘sahabat’. they’re far better than your besties.

ps: to find ‘sahabat’ like Saidina Abu Bakar (our prophet Muhammad’s sahabat) is difficult but not impossible.

By: master room OV

master room OV — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 13:53:58 +0000

hmm… well this is my opinion though…
sometimes.. when you can reach to even one person who can just really listen to you… it will at least makes you feel that they are people who cares about you.
And you when know that these people are near to you, somehow, it will make you stronger.

hehe…