Kalau JAKIM dah kata haram, janganlah sambut.
This is not about conservative or up-open minded or katak bawah tempurung. This about faith. But you want to show appreciation to your love ones, don’t do it on one specific day. Do it daily!
ps: I got my ticket to Melbourne in May! It’s only RM800 for an 8 hour flight. Can’t wait to rekindle with my wife